Being a true “mommy” does not include the standard duties of being a mother, e.g., changing diapers, warming bottles, and bathing the child(ren). Anyone can do that. You become a mommy when you cry at the beauty that lies in your child’s face, when you tickle their chubby baby feet and raspberry their little belly buttons. Kissing a boo-boo and making the pain go away is a power only a mommy can possess, and it’s one we should cherish because we only get to keep it for a short time. All too soon, our babies grow and have boo-boos that even a mommy’s love can’t kiss away.
Being a mommy is about crying with your loves during their heartbreaks and celebrating their triumphs. Scaring away the monsters under the bed, teaching them to ride a bike and eventually drive a car. Giving them the confidence to fly away, but hoping they will occasionally come back home. Giving them your entire heart, watching them grow up and, ultimately, seeing them give their heart away to someone else (and praying that someone will do the same).
Any woman can be a mother. It takes everything to be a mommy.
Here’s to all the mommies out there! Happy Mother’s Day to you all!
Bio: Sandee is a high school teacher turned stay at home mom after the birth of her second child. After nearly two years at home, Sandee started the blog Motherhood is Beautiful…and Other Lies which focuses on the parts of motherhood most women only tell their closest friends. Sandee talks about her adventures and missteps with her two tiny troublemakers Charlie (3 and 1/2) and Tilly (2). The blog’s goal is to open up a dialogue and create camaraderie among women—funny, embarrassing and heartwarming stories about the trials and tribulations of motherhood to show that it’s okay to be an imperfect mommy.
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